If I had a penny…

for every trans person one to a few years into transition who’s too good for trans communities, has nothing left to discuss that’s trans related because they’re just like any other cis person… until they’re around someone who’s as trans old or trans older than them.   They probably also don’t disclose to anyone ever… … Continue reading If I had a penny…

Perplexed and unimpressed

I went for the procedure yesterday but it didn't occur. I lack the words in English to explain what happened directly but here's a decent parallel: Imagine I have a cavity. I've known for some time it needed to be sorted but lacked the time, money and energy. Finally, the stars align, with all necessary … Continue reading Perplexed and unimpressed

Privilege and transmisogyny denial: quit it, transmasculine folks

A short list of some of the things that no longer matter in asexual public settings (and most other settings with select few and far between exceptions): - assaults by cis straight men & cis queer women so I’d know I’m a woman - relatives demanding I forgive their male friends violations to make me … Continue reading Privilege and transmisogyny denial: quit it, transmasculine folks