Limits of therapy and DIY coping strategies for abuse and sexual assault history

Content Note: I won't be describing any abuse or assault. I'm acknowledging I'm a repeat survivor, my barriers in accessing care around this. Check in with yourself as need be both before and as you read this. I went to therapy regularly for nearly a decade. I began going to access letters as required under … Continue reading Limits of therapy and DIY coping strategies for abuse and sexual assault history

Post-scrotoplasty query: Jock Itch (tmi)

Have you experienced jock itch? If so how did you handling it? I just brought some gold bond body spray. I start all my showers by rinsing all around my nut sac with a handheld shower head, in warmer weather I often have a 2nd "shower" strictly to rinse my junk. And after patting dry … Continue reading Post-scrotoplasty query: Jock Itch (tmi)

Cishet Women Who Flirt but Won’t Date Trans Men

My experience with dating cishet women is limited, and my reasons for not being interested in dating cishet women anymore have nothing to do with devaluing cisness or heterosexuality. A number of cishet women who know my medical history have hit on me over the years. This might be flattering if they didn't often throw … Continue reading Cishet Women Who Flirt but Won’t Date Trans Men