Query: Insecurity in Open Relationship (TMI/NSFW text)

I've edited the prompt for a few reasons, but here is the spirit of it. I don't generally have internalised shame about being trans. But one situation that makes me feel dysphoric is when my primary partner goes on a date with a cis guy or non-binary AMAB person. I reject bodily essentialism in principle, … Continue reading Query: Insecurity in Open Relationship (TMI/NSFW text)

Surgical Inquiry: girth and implants (TMI/NSFW)

I liked the girth I initially had post-op but once the swelling went down so did the girth by about an inch. Am I right that getting an erectile implant will likely get that inch back? I'm sorry, but it's unlikely a penile implant will give you back that inch. The way a penile implant … Continue reading Surgical Inquiry: girth and implants (TMI/NSFW)

Dealing with misgendering at the beginning of hormone therapy

I was asked for tips to deal with misgendering early into hormone therapy. So here are some ideas, in no particular order. Hair cuts Getting or giving myself hair cuts was one of the best self-care I had. If you don't want your hair to be shorter, dying it, or styling it differently may achieve … Continue reading Dealing with misgendering at the beginning of hormone therapy