Self-Awareness: choice of where to live

Seemingly, I left the perfect living arrangement a few years ago. I lived on my own, in a place with a gest bedroom, enjoyed a quick walk to work, and my fabulous family physician, while living on a street where I cherished several lovely neighbours. I was a reasonable walking distance to several of my … Continue reading Self-Awareness: choice of where to live

Gratefulness in a Time of Grief

I'm utterly devastated, and the worse is still ahead. It additionally feels like coming to the mostly bitter end of the last few years of my life, which have revolved around multiple cancer diagnosis of most of my nearest and dearest and chronic underemployment for me as I scrambled to provide them with care. There's … Continue reading Gratefulness in a Time of Grief

Query: Insecurity in Open Relationship (TMI/NSFW text)

I've edited the prompt for a few reasons, but here is the spirit of it. I don't generally have internalised shame about being trans. But one situation that makes me feel dysphoric is when my primary partner goes on a date with a cis guy or non-binary AMAB person. I reject bodily essentialism in principle, … Continue reading Query: Insecurity in Open Relationship (TMI/NSFW text)